It's a girl thing!

1)“BFFs and/or Close girlfriends…however you wanna call it lah”

2)“Men”

3)“Dating”

4)”Friendship”

………how are these 4 wonderful words connected? Well, there are few possible permutations or relationships type (oki people, get those brain cells working and see if you can make up what these permutations mean…hehehe):

*(1), (3), (2)

*(1), (4), (2)

*(1), (4), (1)

*(1), (3), (1)

*(2), (3), (2)

*(2), (4), (2)

Whatever permutation any relationship may come in, nothing matters most than when your own BFFs or close GF has a relationship or goes dating with their perfect man…*woo hoo!…u go gers!*

But what happens when your GF catch the STS, or commonly known as Siamese Twin Syndrome? * STS…do I really need to explain….think Siamese twins, joined at the hip, wherever one go, another goes…is almost like they build each other’s life on one another and no one else can get into this little bubble of theirs…..get it? Get it?...ahhhh…*

Don’t get me wrong, I am all happy knowing that any of my GF has a great man in her life, but do things really need to change when a man jumps into the equation? Does it mean we should stop having coffee totally? Do we not just hang out anymore and just goss? Or are those moments being replaced with just phone calls?

Well, these are PB’s thoughts about BFFs, GFs, Dating and men….when you put them into the equation TOGETHER:

1)The man should not replace the friendship; is should be another playing field that you can run to, for obvious reasons …(errr…such as cuddling, sex, running your fingers thru their hair) …you know what I mean LOL… things that we can’t do to each other unless you are into ‘softbians’

2)The man is an additional pillar, not a replacement pillar

3)As much as a new relationship need nurturing, the old must continued to be nurtured, else it will die a natural death

4)We all need friends (at many different intellectual & emo levels), cos if and when anything happens, you can be rest assured that you still have another pillar to fall back on…*cos the truth is if you keep a distance away from friends far too long, that pillar may just crumble and disintegrate*

5)Dating is healthy, so are friends and occasional goss & shopping together!

6)Remember, GF are like a fibre optic network system – complicated but yet the kind of emotional support is amazing!

So, ladies, as much as we all enjoy having men around us, remember the very reasons we were created….we need each other as ‘ladies friendship’ offers us a level where we can just let our hair down, and be who we truly are…just girls who love to goss, talk about boys, share our pain and joys in ways when men just won’t get us!...It is a girl thing!...

p/s: Best Girlfriends – they know how crazy you are, and don’t mind being seen in public with you!