Sunday, January 20, 2013


Missing children…we hear of this more so often nowadays. Whether is kidnapping, child trafficking, we question how and why it does happen. Our children are hopes of our future, the lifeline of many parents and they are also the constant reminders as to how beautiful our world is through their eyes.

A child’s innocence can easily be robbed in the blink of an eye. As adults and parents, we do our best to protect the innocence for as long as we can, because we know this purity will be contaminated in the process, more so when untoward incidence happens.

Recently, we just had another case of a missing child. Yes, perhaps the parents were wrong in leaving their kids alone in the car, but this is really not the time to point fingers at anyone. Losing the child is already a punishment heavy enough for any parents to bear.

No parent should have to go through the pain of losing their child. It is a pain that no word can ever, ever described.

I can only pray for the safe return of this child to their family. Wherever he may be now, I believe God has his eyes on him and pray for strength that the parents shall not lose hope.

Monday, January 7, 2013

Empty and abandoned?

Have you ever ever wondered, how fulfilling your life is….and all of a sudden it feels empty? I mean literally empty. Almost like whatever that seemed to fulfill your life suddenly seemed to have disappeared?

You wonder why? Then you wonder if God had decided to take leave and not tell us?
I am sure there were moments when you felt like He had just walked away…and leave us hanging …wondering…unknowing…

It is scary, yes. BUT, that does not mean He had abandon us. It is a quiet time for us, to realize and re-affirm how much we believe in Him when He seemed to had disappear. It is a time for us to reflect and strengthen our faith in Him. It is when He seemed distance that we must remain strong or for some of us become stronger.

Yes, we may be shaken a little thinking that float of faith is gone. But believe me, He will never ever leave us….it is us whom needs to be checked. Do we feel threatened when the emptiness set in? Do we start to doubt His loyalty? Do we question why we think He has abandon us? Is there a lesson that He wants us to learn from this ‘emptiness’?

There will always be something better and greater that He had planned for us…we just need to trust that the ‘emptiness’ is only temporary…it is meant for us to flush out our negativity and doubts. Focus on the fact that He will never leave us empty.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

2013...we made it here!

Phew! 2013…we made it here after all. We said goodbye to 2012 and of course, all of us would have received messages of well-wishes, good blessings, blah blah blah…you get the drift.

We have all crossed over to the New Year with hopes and resolutions of better things to come our way whilst we leave the bad stuff of 2012 behind. Some could be more cynical and narcissist about life.

Whether is 2012 or 2013 (and many more years to come), it can only get as good as we all make it. Yes, I can see some of you nodding in agreement, or perhaps some of you may think this Psycho Bitch lives in Fairyland. Whatever you choose to believe, it is a new year after all. Look at it as a clean sheet of paper, a fresh new opportunity for us to draw great colourful stuffs on it or leaving it blank, or maybe, tear that sheet of paper away.

The year had just started, it is still clean, is still good. It is, really, up to us, what we want to draw on this clean sheet of paper.

So, go ahead….make the choice or choices that will best suit you and what works for you. At the end of the day, like my mom would tell me…we must all be able to go to bed with a clean and clear conscience.

Have a blast in 2013 peeps!

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Hang on to it! TGIF!

WOW! This is it …the last Friday of 2012….didn’t realize it, did you?

Suddenly your heart is racing…”oh dear, is it?”…”WTF ?!!!”…”Someone stop time!”…blah blah blah…

Does it really matter if it was the last Friday of 2012? Seriously….are we that driven by the months and years? Is it because we have had resolutions not fulfilled? Or have we forgotten to complete certain tasks or promises not kept?

In my humble opinion, it does not matter what day or if it’s the last Friday of the year, because the days will repeat itself over and over again. If we had never learned our lessons yet about keeping to our resolutions or promises or wishes, try revisiting the expectations which we have placed on ourselves (and others around us)….perhaps we were not being realistic…maybe…something to ponder upon as we breathe our way in the next 3 days to 2013….

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

2013...are we there yet?

Merry Boxing Day from Kuala Lumpur! Yes…Christmas came and gone in a jiffy. Now we have exactly 5 days before we move our asses into 2013.

Christmas was wonderful and I wished all of you had the same great celebration. Whether you partied hard or just quiet dinner celebration, it does not matter, as long as we all enjoyed it the way we wanted it. After all it was about sharing….hope you shared good feelings, good thoughts and most of all forgiveness to all those who trespass against us.

As we move towards 2013, some of us may have started thinking about resolutions, reflections of 2012…blah blah blah…

No matter what had happened in 2012….and we don’t know what’s going to happen in 2013…in the mean time….enjoy the next 5 days…